If you’ve ever found yourself trying to manifest a client in your business, trying to manifest more money in your bank account or trying to manifest a loving relationship in your life, and it seems like you are creating the exact opposite, or maybe it just feels like it’s taking a very, very long time for you to materialize all these things that you want in your life, I have two questions for you to ask yourself that will speed things up for you.
My name is Dihessa Bodjona, and in this video I’m going to share with you these two questions that I ask myself all the time when I feel like I am like encountering resistance in my manifesting. So question number one is why do I not want this? In other words, what am I so afraid will happen if this became my reality? A lot of the times we have these resistances because of some things that may have happened in our past or because of some preconceived ideas that we have about certain situations in our lives, again, coming from certain information that we may be carrying in that particular area. And, uh, uh, what that really means is that when we asking for something in the back of our head, we have this conflict going on. Even though like consciously we want it uh unconsciously we feel or we think or we, uh, from past experiences or from information we carrying, even in our DNA, we have this, uh, again, preconceived idea that something bad is going to happen if we receive or if we do get, uh, what it is that we are asking for.
Some of the examples will be something like, ah, maybe I’m afraid that my husband is no longer going to love me or maybe I’m afraid that I’m not going to spend a lot of time with my kids. Or another example would be that maybe uh, all we know is a certain chaotic habit that we’ve experienced in our past, and that’s all we know and that’s what is familiar and then we are scared really, even though that’s what we asking for, we are scare of the unknown. Right? So what I usually do and what I would recommend you do is to stay still enough, uh, that, uh, when you’re asking yourself the question without any judgment and without judging yourself at all, asking yourself, what am I so afraid will happen if this became reality, or another question you can like, it’s the same question really, uh, is that what bad thing too I think is going to happen if this was my new reality, if this was my new reality?
And when you do find the answer, a lot of the time we try to avoid the answer actually a lot of the time, a lot of the times we tried to avoid any emotions that may be coming up around, uh, that particular, uh, subject in our life, right? And so when we are trying, which is actually the real issue here, when we are trying so hard to avoid the emotions that come up or when that conflict or when that thing that we are so afraid of pops up in the back of our mind or front of our mind, uh, what it does is, it actually creates a lot of resistance and it creates lots of blocks. So, uh, when you do become aware of, um, what the resistance is or what you’re afraid is going to happen when, uh, if your dream or your, what you asking for became reality, uh, then, uh, two things you can ask yourself is, is this for real?
Sometimes it’s irrational, right? Uh, you can face it up front. Uh, one thing that I really, really like doing is, uh, asking myself what if that became true? What if that was true? Right? What’s the worst thing that can happen? Uh, as opposed to me trying to avoid it. really coming to terms of the fact that I can, I’m able, if I rely on, you know, like on my true essence and my true self, I am able to navigate any challenges that come my way. Uh, and that by facing all the challenges, that is how we grow, that’s how we grow and that’s, uh, how we can actually reach our goals much faster as opposed to trying to avoid them. One thing that I love doing, one thing that has helped me tremendously, uh, be be very present, uh, so that I can be the observer so that I, I’m not being swallowed by my emotions are or so that I’m not trying to avoid my emotions.
One thing that has helped me tremendously is, uh, uh, energy exercise. And so I’ll put the link somewhere around here if you would like to, uh, access that or somewhere below this video so that you can also utilize it to help you in really cruising through, really riding the waves of the emotions. When these things come come up. It is super powerful, super powerful. Now let’s go to the second question that you can ask yourself. The second question that you can ask yourself will be: what can I do differently? Which also means uh really like asking guidance from your inner self because it’s always there. It’s always guiding you. all we need to do is to ask and to really have a clear idea of what it is that we asking for uh and focusing on it. Keep asking , what can I do differently or who do I need to see?
Who do I need to talk to? Who do I need to get help from? You know, like what can I do differently? You will notice I’m not saying what do I do? Can I do better? It’s not about doing better. It’s not about having done worst before. It’s just that, uh, everything is a process and when we loose focus, that’s when things don’t happen anymore. But when we keep focused and then we can keep asking, what can I do differently? What can I do differently? Who do I need to speak to? Who Do I need to call? Who do I need to get training from? What do I need to learn and so on and so forth. And then we get all the answers over and over over again, and so that we can actually get to our goals and our vision much faster than we could ever imagine.
This works all the time. Try it and then let me know how it works out for you. Or if you’ve ever had your own little secret or your own little practices for speeding up of manifesting, please share with me in the comments below. I’ll love to read all about it. Thank you so much for watching this video and I’ll talk to you soon. Bye. Thanks so much. [inaudible]. If you liked this video, please make sure that you subscribe to my channel by hitting the subscribe button right below this video and also make sure that you get the notification bell so that you are notified when I post videos just like this one. Bye!
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